Tuesday, July 12, 2005

marriage betrayal

The violation of a marriage through infidelity is a a painful reality for many people who try to stay together in the aftermath of the discovery.

A young man wants to believe that his wife will be faithful once again but images of what has happened are hard for him to process.

Ayoung woman wants to believe her husband's promises of future faithfulness but she has heard them before.

Is there any hope for repair?

Yes. I am reminded of several examples that I have witnessed firsthand where both parties determined to confess their sin to one another, offer forgiveness, and operate in an intentional environment of rebuilt trust. It was an intellectual exercise to begin with--with emotions trailing far behind--but each day of affirmation of purpose and corroborating behavior, brought new strength, new hope, and ultimate healing.

God is the healer of those who have been betrayed. He is the advocate of those who are hurt and without hope. He is the reason we can own our sin and find forgiveness, and a new beginning.

Don;t give up!

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